The Rut and the Way Out

Leo Babuta of Zen Habits had a post  recently “The Rut and the Way Out” that really hit home with me. I have been trying to re-organize, re-align, and re-focus my consulting business and personal life and it has just felt like too massive an undertaking.  All I seemed to be able to do was to make lists, re-read my notes and end up taking a nap because it was just too tiring to try to tackle what appears to be a huge undertaking.

Quoting the post:

“…Here’s the thing: the first step wasn’t to take on a major challenge. It was simply announcing it.”.  —- Well I’ve announced it. Re-Align and Re-focus

“… Can you take an even smaller step? Sure: you can simply ask, “What if?” —- Well- yeah- I can.

…”What if you tossed out your to-do list and only did 1 important thing each day before doing the less important tasks?”  – yep – I can do that!

…”What if you tossed out your goals? What if you let go of your expectations? What if you got rid of everything you had?”

Well…. answering these questions worked for me!!

Announcing: breathing new life into this site

1 step at a time – as ittle as it may be…

Publish my goals

Let go of my expectations

I feel so much better. It really has helped me to move forward!! Thank you Leo!  Has this worked for anyone else? Post a comment below.

Photo Credit: Neckrein from http://mellinniumcowboy.blogspot.com/2011_05_01_archive.html

 

Summer Solstice

It’s now officially the summer season. The rain and thunderstorms continues.  Have an appointment scheduled to do some custom work on the ride on Monday. Also will get a new tire put on – can’t believe that I need a new tire already. Maybe I should look at getting a new rain suit while the bike is getting worked on.

2011 Book List

Since it is a new year (2011) it’s time to start a new list for my reading addiction. It was fun for me to list the titles and authors of the books that I have read. I actually found keeping a list very helpful especially when I am at the local bookstore and library or at the community book sale so that I won’t make the mistake of getting a book that I already have read. It’s madding to me that publisher’s will change the cover of a book in an attempt to sell more books. (yes – I know- it works!)  I can quickly check this list on my smart phone and see if I have read it or not.

The Other Side by JD Robb, Mary Blayney, Patricia Gaffney, Ruth Ryan Langan, and Mary Kay McComas
Copyright 2010 – Collection of  short stories related to the “other side”

Trial by Fire by J.A. Jance Copyright 2009

U is for Undertow by Sue Grafton

Updated 01-17-11

Went to the city for work and picked up some more books. Have not read these yet but I’m working on them and have a couple of them started.

Made to Stick by Chip Heath and Dan Heath – recommended by several people as something  good for sm businesses
Rework by Jason Fried and David Heinemeier Hansson
Stretching by Bob Anderson – to help with my resolution to get more exercise in 2011!

I also bought the DVD of The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet’s Nest. Curious to see how the film is and what happens in the third book by Steig Larsson. I’ve read the book version of  the series so now I’ll see how the movie compares.

And lastly – I got two Web Design Magazines that I can’t get at the local news stand locally (  oh – the joys of living in a small rural town). Always excited to get to the City and have a wider selection of magazines and trade news.

updated 1/30/11

Toxic Bachelors by Danielle Steel  – some light reading while I am home sick .
You’re the One by Judi McCoy – what can I say — This is the fourth day I’ve been quite sick and only light reading seems to be all that I can manage before sleep takes over.

updated 02/08/11

Irish Love by Andrew M. Greeley

updated 02/09/11

The Perfect Summer by Luanne Rice

updated 02-13-11

Spring Flowers, Summer Love by Lois Richer – Desperate to save her father’s tree nursery, Rowena Davis came home to Serenity Bay to negotiate a deal with the new owner, Connor Wingate.

updated 02-27-11 – Can you tell I want spring to come with flowers, bulbs and dry roads. I’m tired of shoveling snow.

A Time to Kill by John Grisham

Changes by Danielle Steel

updated 03/06/11

Pretty Woman by Fern Michaels

last update 03/08/11

Red Lily by Nora Roberts

updated 03/19/11

More Books….

Mediterranean Hot and Spicy: healthy, fast and zesty recipes from Southern Italy, Greece, Spain, the Middle East, and North Africa
(cookbook)

Flat Belly Diet by Liz Vaccariello (cookbook

Beginning Joomla!darn – forgot to record the Author!!!

Impossible by Danielle Steel

More Books

Got a few more books from the “Family Reading – Bright Red Bookshelf” Box for some light diversion reading:

Blind Side – An FBI Thriller by Catherine Coulter

To the Edge by Cindy Gerard

Brooke by VC Andrews (Third Book in the Orphans Miniseries)

September Book List

I got to go the “city” recently – meaning Rochester and Albany – and of course visited my favorite book sellers.

Brought home several new titles that I am working my way thru.  Here is the list:

Perfect Phrases for Sales and Marketing Copy Copyright 2008 by Barry Callen
Hundreds of Ready-to-Use Phrases to Capture Your customer’s Attention and Increase Your Sales

Jeffrey Gitomer’s Little Red Book of Selling – 12.5 Principles of Sales Greatness: how to make sales forever
Copyright 2005 by Geffrey H. Gitomer

Jeffrey Gitomer’s Sales Bible – The Ultimate Sales Resource – Including the 10.5 Commandments of Sales Success

Copyright 2008 Jeffrey Gitomer

“Our Best Diabetic Recipes – Eat what you LOVE! – Guaranteed delicious and carb-counted for you”
by Better Homes and Garden Special Interest Magazine 2010

Summer Reading List

It’s been really warm weather and actually too hot to do much of anything. Even reading in front of a fan doesn’t make it much cooler.

Read the following paperback books that I found in the Book Sharing Shelf at the day job:

A McKaslin Homecoming by Jillian Hart
Someone to Watch Over Me by Lisa Kleyps
The Backup Plan by Sherryl Woods
Home in Carolina by Sherryl Woods
Irish Rebel by Nora Roberts
The Cottage by Danielle Steel
Now you see him by Stella Cameron
Chaos in the Ashes by William W. Johnstone